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Mad Town Monday X: Here a Pagan, There a Pagan

I've come to realize that Madison is the place that the hippies have found a home. For instance, my landlord is a nice gray haired lady that runs a massage business and wears crystals, we have at least one street fair a month and Whole Foods is the most popular place in town. But never was it more apparent that we are Mecca for hippies than at the Solstice Festival.

That's right we have a Solstice Festival where everyone dances around a huge bonfire as the sun slowly sets. I've never felt so pagan in my whole life as I did standing there. But let's start at the beginning...

We arrived at the park a little before sundown and found a good crowd of people and music.



But best of all, there was free ice cream!




We goofed off for a little while exploring the park.


And then it was time for the fire to be lit!




I didn't know feeding princesses to a dragon was part of this event...


 
The fire was surrounded by lots of crazy people dancing and even a drum circle. It was exactly what you would think of if I told you to picture a hippie solstice ceremony. Which was kinda awesome.

But the fire was also surrounded by a lot of muddy ground, which made Lewis want to start a mud fight. Unfortunately, he is too nice to just go up to a random stranger and throw mud in their face so he kept looking for someone, ANYONE who would join in his fun. (I, of course, couldn't because someone had to stay with the baby. ;) ) After a while, he decided that throwing mud up in the air should get the kids riled up enough to start slinging mud at each other.

Surprisingly, they didn't take the bait. He did come after me though!


The Baby thought this was a terrible idea!

He wasn't too mean about it though. I only got a little on my face and shirt.


After the fire burned down, the most magnificent storm rose up and people scattered for the nearest trees. Huge water drops thundered down. We were sopping wet and thrilled by Nature's powerful display by the time we reached our car. The baby was NOT thrilled, however, so we whisked him into the car as fast as possible. Then Lewis and I danced in the rain and splashed in the puddles until all the mud was washed away, our childish glee was satiated, and we simply couldn't stand the howls from the car any longer. Reminded that we aren't care free children anymore, we returned to our unhappy child and our normal lives that do not include running in the rain, jumping in puddles or pagan solstice ceremonies.

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Inies Vs. Outies

It's official! Indy has now been out of me longer than he has been in me! He is now 42 weeks old, and a bundle of joy, a little hellian, and a genius (with our genes, how could he not be?!).

As I look back on these last 42 weeks, I compare them to the first 41 weeks. Some things have changed drastically, while others are eerily similar: 

  • Indy still hits me about the same amount but at least now days I don't want to vomit and pee at the same time when he does it. Although, now it hurts alot more especially when he headbutts me in the face... Last month, he headbutted me as usual but this time he scraped himself on the corner of my glasses.

It's ok. We made him feel better with an awesome Batman band-aid!
 
  •  I now spend all of church in the foyer or mother's room. Whereas, when I was pregnant, I only stepped out to go to the bathroom 3 or 4 times. 
 
  •  I don't waddle anymore! I now weigh 65 lbs less than I did the day he was born. 
 
  •  I now know what true pain feels like and it wasn't as bad as I thought. (I'm not talking about childbirth. Gallstones are way worse!)
 
  • Our house is loud and always a mess now. But the giggles and the look on his face when he figures out something new, make it worth it. The screams for attention from a grumpy, tired baby who just hit his head on something again make it alot less worth it....
 
  • I don't feel like vomiting nearly as much now. Although in the first weeks of his life, I vomited more than I did the whole pregnancy.
 
  • I actually sleep more at night now than I did in my late pregnancy but not quite as much as when I was first pregnant. As you can see in my highly sophisticated chart:
      I certainly feel better about my sleepless nights now when I'm nurturing an adorable little baby than I did  when I was quite pregnant and just never comfortable. I used to wish that I could sleep floating in water or maybe the weightlessness of space just so I could finally be comfortable.

  •  I can't think anymore. I'm not sure if it's due to the sleepless nights or just never having a moment's peace. Either way, putting together a coherent thought takes at least twice as long and is a hopeless cause when Indy is awake. But it's been this way since the middle of my pregnancy so I've gotten used to it.
 
  • I have a love hate relationship with breastfeeding. It's helped me lose alot of weight. It's free to feed my baby and it's better for him too! It's tons easier in the middle of the night than trying to make a bottle. I can fall asleep and feed him at the same time. But then he'll wake me up by trying to put his finger up my nose like he did today. He slaps, hits, scratches, and pinches me just because his hand is free. And he is constantly yanking my nipple around! But it is really nice to hold him in the few moments he's not running around like a maniac. 
 
  • I can do the "I'm not PREGNANT!" dance now. Yes, I really did make up a dance. Every morning for at least 2 months after I had Indy, I would jump out of bed, wiggle my hips, jump up and down, bend over and sing "I'm not pregnant! I'm not pregnant! Yay!" (Now don't you wish I had a video of that?!)

Thinking of all the changes that have happened I look forward to the next 41 weeks and what they have in store for me. I'll be looking forward to many things but especially these:
  • No more nursing (I'll actually be able to wear dresses again!)
  • Indy walking
  • More sleep
  • Nursery! (I will finally be able to go to Relief Society again)
  • Indy learning to talk
  • Teaching him right from wrong
  • Wearing jewelry again
  • Getting to know him better and better

As I'm writing this, I feel like President Kennedy with my son playing under my desk. (His babbling and tapping on my legs is terribly distracting. How did Kennedy get any work done?) Being a parent may be an enormous amount of work and hassle and mess but it is so rewarding seeing him smile. I love it when he sees me and starts crawling as fast as he can to meet me. I love his laugh and I love his fascination with everything mechanical. I love not being pregnant anymore and it's not just that I hated being pregnant, I really do love having a son. I know that Indy is all I ever seem to talk about anymore but he really is my whole world. And for right now, that's everything I want my life to be.

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